Do YOU have the Sense of a Goose?
Monday, April 24, 2017 128 Comments
© Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
Reflections: edited repostingClick HERE for Part One: ABOUT Values and the Goose Story
A wonderful model for living
In 1994 I founded The Optimal Functioning Institute™ – the company that presented the world’s first comprehensive ADD-specific coaching curriculum, and the only one for many years (OFI’s certification compliant A.C.T.), a curriculum I developed and delivered personally for years.
OFI was founded according to the principles that Dr. Harry Clarke Noyes articulates in The Goose Story, an extremely short free-verse poem (below) about the importance of community.
For well over a decade it was featured prominently on my first website, ADDCoach.com, built to focus on promoting the existence of ADD Coaching and the importance of brain-based, ADD-specific, Coach Training — and one of the first ADD sites on the web.
I first shared it here on ADDandSoMuchMORE.com in 2011. Over the years, it has become a touchstone and a talisman for myself and, I hope, many of the students who trained with me.
In The Goose Story, Noyes compares and contrasts human behaviors to those of a flock of geese, starting with an impressive explanation as to why you always see them flying in V-formation.
The reason I was so taken with this story is a story of its own: how I became aware of the importance of a strong personal foundation and of values-based goals.
After my recent three-part empathy story [Part I here], which you’ll also find in the Related Contents at the bottom of this post, I decided it was time to share it again with many new readers who might never have seen it.
Part I of this post attempts to give you a little bit of background.
This post shares Noyes’ wise words.
The Goose Story
by Dr. Harry Clarke NoyesNext fall,
when you see Geese
heading South for the Winter,
flying along in V formation,
you might consider
what science has discovered
as to why they fly that way:
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As each bird flaps its wings,
it creates an uplift for the bird immediately following.
By flying in V formation the whole flock adds at least
71% greater flying range than if each bird flew on its own.
People who share a common direction and
sense of community can get where they are going
more quickly and easily because they
are traveling on the thrust of one another.
When a goose falls out of formation,
it suddenly feels the drag and resistance
of trying to go it alone
and quickly gets back into formation
to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird in front.
If we have as much sense as a goose,
we will stay in formation with
those who are headed the same way we are.
When the Head Goose gets tired,
it rotates back in the wing
and another goose flies point.
It is sensible to take turns doing demanding jobs
with people or with geese flying South.
Geese honk from behind
to encourage those up front to keep up their speed.
What do we say when we honk from behind?
Finally, and this is important,
when a goose gets sick,
or is wounded by gunshots and falls out of formation,
two other geese fall out with that goose
and follow it down to lend help and protection.
They stay with the fallen goose until it is able to fly,
or until it dies.
Only then do they launch out on their own,
or with another formation
to catch up with their group.
IF WE HAVE THE SENSE OF A GOOSE,
WE WILL STAND BY EACH OTHER
LIKE THAT!
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- ABOUT Values and the Goose Story
- Bumbershoots, Metaphysics, Logic & Coaching
- Creating Community Together
- Do You Have a Minute? Sorry for the Inconvenience – Part I
- Sorry for the Inconvenience – Part II
- Empathy Finale – Part III
Related Links around the ‘net
- Canada Goose Haiku (friendlyfairytales.com)
- The Goose that Flies without Wings (indralokaanimalsanctuary – CHARMING!)
- Lessons from Geese (alienhippy)
- I would be proud to be a goose…how about you? (aclairavoyantjourney)
- The Rich go Galt, the Poor go Goose (Eradica)
- Be a goose! (sethsnap.com)
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Just beautiful x
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Thank you so much Christophe. I’m thrilled you found it, but how in the world did you stumble upon that one today?
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mgh
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I definitely have a sense of goose! This is just lovely.
xx
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Thanks so much, Lucy. And I agree – you most certainly DO!
In fact, the entire blogging community of writers seems to have quite a bit in common with those geese. 🙂
xx,
mgh
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😁xx
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Reblogged this on lovehappinessandpeace and commented:
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Beautiful!
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“By flying in V formation the whole flock adds at least
71% greater flying range than if each bird flew on its own.
People who share a common direction and
sense of community can get where they are going
more quickly and easily because they
are traveling on the thrust of one another.”
(From Madelyn’s post)
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Well HELLO – I’m thrilled to see you over here, and even more thrilled to see that you reblogged this particular post. Thank you SO much!
xx,
mgh
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Hello, Madelyn! Thank You for Your kind words and support. …The post is a lovely one! Thanks for sharing! Much Love and Regards. 🙂
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My dear man – you got back to me before I got over to thank you under the reblog. Drats!
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mgh
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No problems there, my Dear Madelyn! 🙂
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I appreciate your generosity of spirit.
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mgh
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You are Not so bad, Yourself, my Dear Madelyn! 🙂
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lol – you a started my day with a laugh! Thank you my friend.
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mgh
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Keep Smiling, my Dear Madelyn! 🙂
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You as well, dear Swami.
xx,
mgh
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🙂
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Wonderful post, Madelyn. All the best to Harry too. Mega hugs.
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Thanks Teagan – it inspires me daily.
xx,
mgh
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A great analogy. Geese do these things without even thinking about them. Humans think about them but still don’t do them. Which is the more stupid species?
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hmmmm, interesting question. Let’s think about a few more things . . .
* Geese don’t have point geese who decide to erase the distance traveled by the flock when they take the lead
* Geese travel together in the direction that benefits the ENTIRE flock.
* Geese don’t decide that geese with darker or lighter feathers are evil and need to be kicked out or walled out
* Geese welcome geese from other flocks who would otherwise be struggling to fly without a flock
I could probably go on, but it’s not looking’ good for the humans. 🙂 Thanks for ringing in.
xx,
mgh
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Humans certainly come out badly on extended comparisons. One could say that human voters cook their own goose.
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Cooked goose – ::groan:: 🙂
xx,
mgh
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Let’s flock together. I like that.
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Wendy, my friend, we will ALWAYS flock together. HONK!
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mgh
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HONK!!
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lol!!!!!
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mgh
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A lovely story Madelyn. It symbolises to me what life is about. Thank you.
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I’m glad you resonated with Noyes’ poem, Brigid. Thanks for stopping by.
xx,
mgh
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Brilliant post and story. Thank you.
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Thank YOU, Mary. I’m pleased it resonated with you too.
xx,
mgh
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Reblogged this on Smorgasbord – Variety is the spice of life and commented:
I believe that community is vital to our survival and feel that this is almost as effective online as it is in person. And in fact as the generations roll out behind us it will be come equally so. Particularly as our reach is now worldwide and we can take support and knowledge from a much wider level of experience. I do recommend that you read this post because Madelyn Griffith-Haynie illustrates this elegantly and succinctly.. #recommended
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How did I MISS this? I just found it (11 hours after you posted it), and I hope you can still believe that I am very grateful that you were moved to share. THANK YOU.
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mgh
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Reblogged this on Lost Dudeist Astrology.
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I am truly touched by the response this post has received, since Noyes’ poem is so important in my life. Thank you so much for reblogging.
xx,
mgh
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You are welcome! Maybe it will become an “internet meme.”
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I would LOVE that!
xx,
mgh
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Reblogged this on Lost Dudeist Astrology.
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Just left a thank you message on your site’s reblog post – and I also want to say thank you here as well.
xx,
mgh
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You are welcome!
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🙂 You are a doll!
xx,
mgh
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🙂 Thanks!
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My pleasure.
xx, mgh
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Loved the goose tale. Life in the skies is so comparable to ours. 🙂 xx
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But wouldn’t it be GREAT to be up there?
xx,
mgh
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You got that right! We’ll form our own V. You and me have a lot of wind in our sails. 🙂 xx
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There are a few other bloggers who might want to join our flock – and we’d honk with the best of them.
xx,
mgh
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Let’s flock off! Honk on! 🙂 xx
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When I read this poem to one of my classes, one of the students responded with, “Well that put’s a whole new spin on ‘honk if you love Jesus.’ ”
xx,
mgh
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Omg, you just made me spit out my sip of tea with laughter as I read this. Note to self – don’t drink while reading Madelyn’s comments. Lololol 🙂
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Or cover your keyboard. 🙂
xx,
mgh
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Lolllllllll
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🙂
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What a great poem. How isit that animals can be so much smarter than we are?
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Because they are cooperative vs. competitive to a greater extent that we are? At least, geese are – and many to most of the animal behaviors that touch my heart and make me wonder the same thing.
Thanks always for reading and ringing in, Noelle.
xx,
mgh
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Great things happen when we pull together… 🙂 Wonderful post Madelyn.. May we all keep flying in Unity and keep our headings in the same direction… As we all open our hearts to one another…
Love and Blessings
Sue ❤
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Thank you, Sue. I couldn’t have said it better.
xx,
mgh
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🙂 ❤ Hugs
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Back atcha’
xx, mgh
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Reblogged this on Words To Captivate ~ by John Fioravanti and commented:
Madelyn Griffith-Haynie gifts us with a poem called The Goose Story. After the poem, we are given a valuable lesson in living. Please, don’t miss this and read on…
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Thank you, John. I’m not surprised that Noye’s poem touched you too – and I am so grateful that you are passing it on.
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mgh
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You’re welcome, Madelyn. I learned a lot from that story – thank you!
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As did I, John – and I love the metaphor.
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mgh
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That is the thinking this world actually needs, thank you for sharing such insightful, thought-provoking post! I wish more and more people followed with this sensibility, cos’ the only way humanity can win is by being together, strengthening each other.
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Thank you for a lovely response to this post. Obviously, we are on exactly the same page.
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mgh
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Hi Madelyn,
😉 I got it right this time.
Each time I visit, I learn more and witness the empathy you have those that suffer. I had heard about the Geese and their flight. However, never say it used as an analogy before. Great Post
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🙂 – Noyes’ poem is dear to my heart (even though I have found myself flying point for so long that my wings ache – lol). Thanks for stopping by, and for leaving this empathetic comment.
xx,
mgh
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That is amazing. I will never look up at that formation the same way again.
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It really changed my life from the moment I first heard it (by “anonymous”) – no exaggeration. It was years before a reader let me know the name of the author.
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mgh
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Reblogged this on Kate McClelland and commented:
good analogy
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Thank you Kate – for the reblog and for resonating to the analogy.
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mgh
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You’re very welcome Madelyn xxx
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🙂 xx, mgh
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That is fantastic. I think I’m a goose closer to the back working towards being closer to the front. Building strength. Maybe. Cheers,H
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Glad to hear you are building strength, but as long as we are flapping – even back in the wing – we are ALL contributing to the greater flying range. Honking helps too – lol.
xx,
mgh
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Honk!
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ditto and back atcha! 🙂
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mgh
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That was a great poem, and we should all learn from the geese. We have a playa lake right by the house, where the Canada geese winter over. I love watching them fly in their formations and hear them honking. This poem did answer some questions I had about them. 🙂 Wishing you a lovely week.
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Fascinating species – did you know they mate for life too?
xx,
mgh
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I think I’d heard that they do mate for life. 🙂
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Really sad when hunters shoot them out of the sky them for sport, huh? Strange definition of fun.
xx,
mgh
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Oh, I know. I abhor hunting of any kind, and can’t deal with hearing of any animal hurt.
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I understand hunting for food – tho’ I hope I am never forced to do so. But killing for SPORT? I will *never* get that one, or respect those who engage.
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mgh
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So much for that old expression about going on a wild goose chase! It’s geese who know what they’re doing, and it’s humans who often go on what would be better called a “wild PEOPLE chase.”
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ABSOLUTELY, muse – animals seem so much kinder than humans in many instances – good models.
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mgh
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Reblogged this on BrewNSpew.
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Thank you SO much for reblogging this one. I absolutely love it and want to share it with the world – so thanks for helping.
xx,
mgh
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Is there a post on your blog that explains the name of your site? I’m curious – and didn’t see it on your ABOUT page.
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mgh
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This is most interesting, Madelyn. Humans can learn a lot from geese, can’t they? In fact, humans can learn a lot from animals and nature. We bring a lot of issues on ourselves. Outstanding post – reblogging.
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Yes we can (and I wish more of us would). Again, thanks SO much for helping to spread this around.
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mgh
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Amazing Goose wisdom! I love it. We have so much to learn from animals and nature. It pains me that we don’t listen.
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So true – wonder if we will ever learn that we are really not the kings of the jungle we like to pretend we are? We have SO much to learn about kindness and sharing space on the planet.
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mgh
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This is such a wonderful reminder to us Madelyn. Thank you. Touching story and one that always brings us back to the basics of fellowship.
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I know – it does always seem to come back to that, doesn’t it? I’m glad you saw this one.
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mgh
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Love the goose analogy. We share our environment here with a lot (a REAL lot) of Canada Geese. They will never look the same now! 🙂
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I think that is wonderful – I have heard from many who feel inundated by geese that they can create quite a mess. But knowing a bit about any living creature inspires tolerance, I believe. At least I hope so — and not just toward the geese.
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mgh
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I recently watched a pair cross a quite busy road. One was clearly having some difficulty walking, but the other one held up the traffic until its partner was clear. The only honking was car horns… which were totally ignored. Got to love them! 🙂
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Fascinating! A clear message to US to slow the heck down. LOL
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mgh
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Appropriate message to be passed on to the world that insist upon fragments. 👍
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Interesting way to frame it – thank you. We need always to keep in mind that, underneath it all, we are ALL one.
xx,
mgh
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Pleasure Madelyn. The story was truly moving. Thanks for sharing!
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You are most welcome, Smita. I love it when readers have a similar response to mine.
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mgh
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that’s a very good example how people roll ;o) and it reminds me of my math teacher who said I’m like those big berds, whose feathers we use for pillows… so I’m probably a goose in many ways :o)
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Tink’s favorite pillows are goose down – because he can squirm around and make a nest before he lies down. I ran into an amazing close-out sale at a Big Lots many years ago, so I picked up quite a few for dog beds when I had three Shih Tzus. Now that I have only one, Tink gets them all.
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mgh
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IF WE HAVE THE SENSE OF A GOOSE, WE WILL STAND BY EACH OTHER LIKE THAT! This is the reality, Madelyn that says all in your awesome poem. We need to learn from these beautiful geese how we need to live and support each and everyone of our Human beings and a community that stays together lasts longer. I had never heard anything like that about these birds. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for reading, Kamal. It sounds like it struck you in a manner similar to how I felt when I first heard it. I resonated immediately. Thank you for letting me know it touched you too.
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mgh
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Welcome dear Madelyn and a wonderful and true post so inspiring for all of us. Thanks and it sure touched me.
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Thank you for saying so, Kamal.
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mgh
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Welcome Madelyn.
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🙂 xx, mgh
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Howdy Madelyn!
Great story. We’re stronger together, aren’t we? Hm… where have I heard that before?
Huzzah!
Jack
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Two things I know for sure about life:
1. Nobody gets out alive
2. Nobody makes it through alone.
xx,
mgh
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Thank you for sharing this, Madelyn. I makes so much sense. Sadly, there are a lot of humans that don’t subscribe to this sort of thinking and they are often the ones that cause all the problems for the rest of us.
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Thank you for letting me know you like it, Robbie. Sad indeed, especially for them, it is true that there are many who probably never will choose to subscribe to this sort of thinking – but we don’t have to join them, do we?
And a lot of us don’t – especially those of us who blog. I think we are a pretty encouraging bunch – amazingly so, actually. And thank you, Robbie, for your support and encouragement.
xx,
mgh
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It is my pleasure, Madelyn. I liked this article so much I shared it on my personal Facebook and to my Facebook page @SirChocolateBooks. The bloggers are generally an awesome bunch.
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Reblogged this on The Militant Negro™.
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How delightful. Thank you very much for sharing this with your community.
xx,
mgh
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You’re delightful as well. Good to see you and I hope you had a good weekend.
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It was unusually lovely, thank you – I made it a point to spend some time out of my office and away from the computer – imagine that! I hope yours was wonderful as well. 🙂
xx,
mgh
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Weekends are always the best, although I don’t have days off from blogging or tweetin or fighting against racism, oppression or evil where I find it. Time off will come to me when I am dead, then I will have tons of time off.
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I don’t take many days away from the keyboard myself – but simply must every now and again to avoid burn out (learned the hard way).
xx,
mgh
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Vacations are very nice.
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To my mind, a “vacation” is more than a day or two away (and has zero business attached to it) – and they are mighty nice indeed, if memory serves (it’s probably been decades since I’ve taken a real vacation).
A college friend is arriving Sunday evening to “drag me away” for a couple of days in a cabin in a Kentucky park (dog-friendly, natch!). We are BOTH psyched about it, since we’ve only talked on the phone for years now. He is very good about scooting ’round the country to spend time with friends every year he has been healthy enough to manage it. I think he’s appalled that I don’t do the same. lol 🙂
xx,
mgh
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Well that sounds just like what the doc ordered. remember to enjoy yourself and have fun for me.
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I will, thanks – and will say a little nature prayer that you will take a bit of a break yourself ere long.
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mgh
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I take breaks when I sleep.
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Astral traveling, perhaps?
xx,
mgh
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